A Stunning, Inspirational Memoir that Illuminates the Issue of Fatherlessness in America. Two people shape a child's life: a mother and a father. I grew up in Columbus, Ohio with my mother but not my father. One big question in my life was the root of nearly all of the decisions that I made growing up - what if I had a father? The absence of my father threw me into a statistical framework that has been proven to lead to a life wasted. By God's Grace, with some powerful relationships and the consistent guide of a national organization, I overcame my challenges. I used the biggest question of my life as a tool to fix my brokenness and to live the life of abundant grace God intended for me.