What if the escape you're seeking through divorce is really an escape from yourself?In this powerful memoir, Soul Custody: Sparing Children from Divorce exposes the hidden phenomenon of "escapist divorces," cases where married parents pursue separation not from genuine irreconcilable differences, but from unresolved personal demons. Drawn from Pamela's deep personal experience and spiritual insight, this book challenges the modern impulse to divorce as a solution to marital discord. By examining the effects of divorce on children, she provides antidotes to divorce.Through raw honesty and hard-won wisdom, she reveals how patience, self-reflection, and faith can change seemingly broken marriages into opportunities for deep healing. For anyone standing at the crossroads of divorce-especially parents-this book gives a crucial perspective on what's really at stake: the impact on children, the weight of sacred commitments, and the possibility of finding peace without walking away. She turns hard-earned regret into hard-won moments of hope for married parents. Soul Custody isn't just another book about saving marriages. It's a courageous review of how facing ourselves within our marriages can lead to the liberation we mistakenly seek in divorce. It's an essential read for anyone considering divorce, adult children who grew up under divorce, or anyone who regrets divorce.