Twenty-First Century society has become more narcissistic. The true self is a vital part of all healthy individuals, but personality disordered preoccupation with "the self" has devastated relationships worldwide. The antidote is knowledge and empathy. The strength of oneself, dignified and resolute, will always overcome a narcissist. The battle may take a while, but the tenacious win every time. Oneself is a fearless journey from a doomed narcissistic relationship to the path of insight, wisdom, and love.