But Why!? is here to help you make sense of what's happening inside your child's brain and body, so you can respond with less frustration and more connection. Because when we understand the why behind the behaviour, everything changes.It's written in plain language, with real-life examples, and practical strategies you can start using right away. Inside, we'll explore how the brain develops across childhood, what different brain structures and chemicals do, and how these things show up in everyday behaviours, tantrums, worries, big feelings, zoning out, hyperactivity, defiance, meltdowns, shutdowns, clinginess, avoidance-all of it. We'll also look at how things like trauma, neurodiversity, or missed connection moments shape behaviour in ways that can easily be misunderstood. But most of all, we'll talk about what you can do, what really helps. Because there are things that help. And when we understand a little more about what's going on inside our kids, we become calmer, more confident, and better able to give them what they need.This book is a mix of science and heart.It brings together what we know about the brain with what we know from real-life parenting-those messy, emotional, beautiful, hard days we all have. I have not written a rulebook; it's a guide for anyone who wants to understand their child a little better, respond with more understanding, become a more confident parent or caregiver, and be more intentional in helping your children thrive.Because when we stop blaming the behaviour, and start understanding the brain behind it, everything begins to change.