If you ever wonder how to entice that pretty thing across a crowded room, how to recognize if someone's attention is genuine, how to let someone know you're both interested and interesting, how to know if someone's toxic by watching how they move, or how to flirt without getting hurt, this book's for you.Carrabis shares insights gleaned from over forty years as an anthropologist, psychologist, language theorist, neuroscientist, therapist, and pizza maker (guys, want to impress someone? make them dinner). His real life stories are examples of demonstrating good behavior, recognizing the early signs of bad behavior, how to enter a relationship, how to make it last, and how to recognize a relationship's ending before the end is painful.Topics includeHow and when to dress for successThe differences between female and male social networks, and how to navigate them if you're the other genderHow to be heard and how to make others want to hear youWhen a few words is more powerful than a PorscheWhen to talk, when to listen, and howCarrabis' studies and practice brought him all over the world. The wisdom in these pages comes from years studying and teaching at the university level, studying and learning from aboriginal peoples across the globe, and blending these experiences to help people navigate difficult daily and life situations. Chapter by chapter, Carrabis offers healing techniques with a sensitivity and understanding few modern therapists have achieved.