A practical, consent first guide for bisexual and gay men who want real world chastity with a real man, not fantasy.The Bi Keyholder shows you how to find a trustworthy keyholder, approach him with respect, earn his confidence, and build a structured dynamic that works in everyday life.Inside you will learn: How to recognize a keyholder in plain sight and choose the right manHow to open the conversation without awkwardness or theatricsHow to use a simple weekly structure that keeps both men steadyHow to set proof, check ins, and clear rules without dramaHow to keep safety, privacy, and health at the center of the dynamicHow to build discipline that strengthens intimacy, trust, and confidenceThis book is written for consenting adults. It focuses on real life structure, calm leadership, and repeatable routines that turn denial into devotion.