You don't need to become harder to stop being hurt.You need to become whole.Have you spent years: Putting everyone else firstAvoiding conflict at your own expenseOver-explaining, over-giving, and over-sacrificingConfusing kindness with self-abandonmentFeeling guilty for needing rest, boundaries, or spaceYou're not broken.You were conditioned.The Art of Selfishness is a faith-centered healing journey for women who are ready to stop shrinking, stop people-pleasing, and finally choose themselves - without losing their faith, or love for others.This book is not about becoming harder.It's about becoming so rooted that you no longer need armor.Inside this book, you will learn how to: Break free from Nice Girl Syndrome and people-pleasing patternsSet boundaries without guilt or fearStop over-explaining and start standing confidentlyHeal emotional exhaustion and chronic self-abandonmentHold strength and softness at the same timeWalk in God-rooted confidence without prideStay peaceful during backlash and misunderstandingEmbody authority, presence, and calm - without hardnessThis book is structured in three powerful movements: The Problem - understanding how the Nice Girl identity formedThe Solution - healing, boundaries, discernment, and self-trustEmbodiment - becoming the woman who no longer asks permission to existWritten with warmth, spiritual insight, and emotional clarity, The Art of Selfishness blends Christian faith, emotional healing, identity work, and embodied confidence into a deeply restorative experience.This book is for you if: You're a Christian woman seeking emotional and spiritual wholenessYou feel called to grow but don't want to lose your tendernessYou're exhausted from being "good" at your own expenseYou want confidence without arrogance and boundaries without bitternessYou're ready to stop surviving and start living aligned with GodYou don't need to become louder.You don't need to become harder.You don't need to become someone else.You need to come home to yourself - the woman God designed before fear, guilt, and conditioning taught you to shrink.This is not selfishness.This is stewardship of the life God gave you.Welcome to your healing.Welcome to your freedom.