Why do well-intentioned parents, working harder than ever, often raise children who are less resilient and less prepared for life? The answer lies in a fundamental mismatch: you're using parenting strategies designed for a world that no longer exists. As a Millennial parent raising Gen Z or Gen Alpha children, you face a challenge unlike any previous generation. Your instincts were formed in an analogue childhood. But your children live in a digital world you never experienced as a child. The old playbook doesn't work anymore. "Because I said so" fails with children who can fact-check any claim instantly. Shame-based motivation produces anxiety, not improvement. Helicopter parenting creates fragile adults who collapse at their first setback. This book offers 20 practical shifts to bridge the generational divide - from recognising your inherited "default mode" to building resilience through survived difficulty. Each tip provides the problem, the key insight, concrete actions, and quick takeaways. Written by an educator with nearly 30 years observing students and families, this book reveals patterns that produce resilient adults - and patterns that don't. Your children are growing up in a world you didn't experience. That's not a problem to solve - it's a reality to understand. Start with one shift. That's enough to begin.