At some point, many women reach a quiet realization: They are not broken.They are exhausted from caring in ways that no longer serve them. When We Decide Not to Care Anymore is not about giving up. It is about giving back to yourself-your energy, your boundaries, and your sense of self-during one of the most transformative stages of a woman's life. Perimenopause and menopause do not just change the body. They change tolerance. Priorities. Identity. The emotional cost of pleasing, managing, explaining, and holding everything together suddenly becomes impossible to ignore. This book explores why that shift happens-and why it may be one of the healthiest signals your body and mind ever send. Rather than framing this phase as decline or dysfunction, Henzy Bianca reframes it as a biological and psychological recalibration: a moment when self-expectation softens, emotional clarity sharpens, and boundaries become non-negotiable. Inside this book, you will discover: - Why emotional detachment during midlife is not apathy, but self-protection- How hormonal change amplifies long-ignored inner truths- Why tolerance drops when self-respect rises- How identity reshapes itself when people-pleasing stops working- The hidden relief behind saying "I can't anymore"- How to build boundaries without guilt, explanation, or apology- Why this season often brings more honesty, clarity, and calm than any before it Written in a steady, validating, and deeply grounding voice, When We Decide Not to Care Anymore speaks to women who feel misunderstood, overstretched, and quietly relieved by their own emotional shift-even if they have not yet put it into words. This is not a manifesto of anger.It is not a rejection of love or responsibility.It is a return to self-respect. If you are navigating perimenopause or menopause and feel less willing to carry what once felt automatic...If you sense your priorities changing faster than your environment understands...If you are ready to stop explaining yourself and start trusting your limits... This book will feel like recognition. Sometimes healing begins not when we try harder-but when we finally stop caring about what no longer matters.