INTRODUCTION: THE QUESTIONS NO ONE WANTS TO ANSWERWhat if cheating isn't the beginning of the problem-but the consequence of it?What if men don't cheat because they are weak, immoral, or predatory-but because something died long before another woman appeared?Why do so many women say, "I gave him everything", while so many men say, "I felt like nothing"?Why do married men-men with homes, children, history, and vows-still walk into the arms of someone who has none of that?Why does society demand that men explain why they cheat...but never ask women to explain why men stopped coming home emotionally?And the most dangerous question of all: What if the other woman didn't steal him-what if she simply treated him the way he had been begging to be treated for years?This book does not comfort.It does not protect feelings.It does not take sides.It places facts on the table-and walks away.