You didn't just lose a relationship - you lost reality. After narcissistic abuse, the mind doesn't "move on." It replays, audits, obsesses, and tries to rebuild coherence from fragments. Memory becomes evidence. Identity becomes negotiable. And the harder you search for answers, the more the ground shifts. The Organising Gate introduces the ASR Complex - a precise map of how perception, threat, and attachment reorganise the psyche under devaluation and discard, and how reality can be reconstructed after collapse. Building on my earlier work, Narcissistic Redeemer: Bringing You Back from Collapse, this book offers structure when your mind is flooded: the mechanism, the pattern, and a way home. Mirrored Psychic Inversion Theory (MPIT)