Hot Mess on Lock: A Real One's Guide to Loving a Man Behind Bars Without Losing Your Mind (orYourselfLove behind bars ain't for the weak.When your man's locked up, the world has opinions - but nobody really sees you: the late-night calls, the loyalty, the loneliness, and the strength it takes to keep showing up.Hot Mess on Lock is your no-filter, real-talk guide to holding it down without losing yourself in the process. Written in that "girl, let's be real" tone, it's equal parts funny, raw, and healing - for every woman who's ever loved through walls and still kept her crown on straight.