Big feelings can feel fast inside a toddler's body.Before I Hit is a calm Montessori story that teaches young children what to do in the moment before their hands act. Instead of shame or punishment, this book gives toddlers simple tools to pause, breathe and choose a safe action. Using real photographs and warm, clear language, toddlers learn to notice early body signals like tight hands, loud feelings, warm faces and busy feet. This grounding helps them understand what is happening inside and gives them confidence to slow down. Our readers appreciate how the book models emotional awareness, co-regulation and safe choices without pressure. Toddlers feel understood, supported and steady. Perfect for homes, preschools, early childhood classrooms and families who want to raise children with calm self awareness. Pairs beautifully with Gentle Hands for families who want both emotional tools and physical boundaries.