What do you do when someone you love tells you they're into puppy play? You read. You ask. You listen.Understanding Human Puppy Play is an educational, compassionate, and accessible guide for parents, therapists, partners, and anyone curious about this often misunderstood identity and practice. Written by clinical psychologist and community member Mike Defta, this book blends professional insight with lived experience to demystify human puppy play, its roots, emotional meaning, and its place in modern identity and relationships.Whether you're a family member seeking understanding, a professional looking for informed language and context, or a curious human exploring the richness of human connection, this book offers a grounded and open-hearted perspective.Inside you'll find: A cultural and psychological history of puppy playReflections on identity, role-play, masking, and self-discoveryReal stories from pups, handlers, and pack membersProfessional guidance on consent, neurodivergence, and safe spaceA dedicated chapter for parents, written with clarity and careFrom the chapter for parents: "You don't have to understand everything right away. You don't have to have the perfect words. What matters is showing your child or sibling that your love isn't conditional. That you are still here. That their world may feel strange to you, but they themselves are not strangers. Curiosity is love in action. So ask. Read. And breathe. This is just another part of getting to know the person you've loved all along."A guidebook, a bridge, and a voice of empathy, Understanding Human Puppy Play helps readers of all backgrounds find connection, clarity, and maybe even a bit of joy along the way.