The Lie We Tell About MarriageWhen you married, did you buy into the myth that love is a feeling, that a perfect partner completes you, or that a "good" marriage should be easy?This is the lie that destroys relationships.After 53 years of choosing, fighting for, and growing an imperfect marriage, Rita Welburg offers a deeply honest and spiritual guide to debunking the fantasy and embracing the difficult, deliberate choice of real love.This book is not about returning to the honeymoon phase, it's about building a fortress of enduring commitment with the person you choose every morning.In this transformative guide, you will discover: The 5 Commitment Barriers: Unmask the common, destructive myths that keep couples stuck in cycles of blame and pretense.The Power of the Daily Choice: Learn the practical, research-backed techniques that transform fleeting feelings into rock-solid, life-long dedication.The Welburg Method: Simple, actionable advice drawn from 5 decades of marital truth, including the hard-won wisdom that allows couples to heal from past mistakes.A Deeper Love: How to use shared challenges and vulnerability to create a love that is stronger, more mature, and infinitely more satisfying than the myth of "happily ever after."Stop waiting for a feeling to save your marriage. Start making the deliberate choices that make love last.If you are ready to choose commitment over comfort, your journey starts here.