You did not plan to feel this far apart.You pray for your daughter. You love her deeply. Yet somewhere between childhood and now, conversations became guarded, emotions escalated quickly, and silence settled in where laughter once lived. You find yourself walking on eggshells, replaying old arguments, wondering if you missed something crucial along the way.This book is for the Christian mother who is spiritually exhausted from trying harder, fixing faster, and carrying the quiet grief of relational distance.Rooted in the peaceful, non-anxious rhythms of Jesus, She Is Not Your Enemy offers a restorative path forward. Not through control, performance, or emotional chasing, but through presence, surrender, and Spirit-led re-engagement. Drawing from Scripture, church history, and the lived wisdom of the saints, this book invites you into a slower, wiser way of mothering a teenage daughter.Through a three-stage journey of Understanding, Disarming, and Rebuilding, you will learn how to step out of cultural chaos, return to the secret place with God, and re-enter your relationship with calm authority, humility, and hope.You are not too late.Your daughter is not lost.And restoration does not begin with fixing her. It begins with returning to Jesus.