Have you ever spent time with someone who seems to make every conversation about themselves? Maybe they constantly talk about their accomplishments, need to be the center of attention, rarely admit when they're wrong, and seem baffled-or even annoyed-when others express pain or vulnerability. They might appear charming to the outside world, but behind closed doors, interactions with them can feel draining, one-sided, or downright confusing. If this sounds familiar, you may have encountered someone with narcissistic traits.Let's be clear: not everyone who shows narcissistic behaviors has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), which is a diagnosable mental health condition requiring professional evaluation. In fact, most people exhibit a degree of self-focus from time to time. But consistent, patterned narcissistic behavior-especially when it involves a lack of empathy, emotional manipulation, or control-can have a profound impact on those exposed to it. Whether it's a partner, a parent, a boss, a friend, or even a sibling, being around someone with significant narcissistic traits can slowly and quietly change the way you feel about yourself and the world.What makes this dynamic so damaging is that it often doesn't start out feeling dangerous. At first, you might find the person magnetic, confident, or even protective. You may have admired their drive or been pulled in by their charisma. But over time, the relationship begins to shift. Your emotions might start to feel like liabilities. Your needs become inconvenient. And little by little, you start to shrink-not physically, but emotionally. You smile less. Apologize more. Second-guess your instincts. Dismiss your own needs. You begin to wonder: Am I the problem?