DNA doesn't make you a dad. Showing up does.If you're listed on the birth certificate but not in your kid's life, this book is your wake-up call.Whether you're a new dad, a part-time parent, or someone trying to reconnect after years away, You're Not Just the Sperm Donor is here to push past your excuses and help you do better-for real.In her signature blunt-but-loving voice, Grammy Kay lays it all out with humor, heart, and hard truth. This isn't a lecture-it's a guide for men ready to show up and grow up.Inside You'll Learn: ✔️ Why child support parenting✔️ How to apologize without blaming your past✔️ How to co-parent without being a bitter ex✔️ How to reconnect with your kid (even if it's been a while)✔️ What real fatherhood looks like-beyond money, ego, or guiltPlus: ✅ The "Are You Actually Trying or Just Excusing Yourself?" Quiz✅ A letter template for real apologies✅ A Father Figure Goals worksheet that helps you lead with intentionWhether you're trying to break the cycle or repair what's broken, this book gives you a new path forward-with no fluff and no sugarcoating.You don't need to be perfect.You just need to stop hiding and start showing up.You've got this, Sir.