Some questions are so uncomfortable, they're rarely asked out loud.Do You Even Like Gay Men? is Philip Garcia's unflinching exploration of the hidden tensions, judgements, and quiet cruelties that undermine connection in the gay world. With piercing honesty and compassion, Garcia tackles the topics most shy away from - internalised homophobia, the obsession with masculinity, the shaming of femininity, app-based hostility, and the competitive undercurrent that keeps us apart.Drawing from lived experience, cultural analysis, and stories shared by men across generations, this book offers both a mirror and a roadmap. It challenges readers to confront the ways we diminish each other - and ourselves - while showing how empathy, curiosity, and joy can rebuild the bonds we've been missing.From trauma and friendship failures to the radical act of celebration, Do You Even Like Gay Men? is equal parts memoir, manifesto, and guide. Whether you're searching for deeper connections, rethinking your dating life, or simply tired of the unspoken rules, you'll find in these pages the permission to stop merely tolerating and start truly celebrating each other.Honest. Relatable. Necessary. This is the conversation our community has been avoiding - and the one we can't afford not to have.