This book is written by Timothy Clear, a man who experienced the shock and heartbreak of divorce after years of trying to be the "perfect husband." Having been blindsided by his wife's decision to end their marriage despite his efforts, he embarked on a personal journey to understand where he went wrong. Through reading books, consulting experts, and reflecting on his own experiences, he uncovered critical insights about the dynamics of long-term relationships. Clear's firsthand knowledge makes this guide especially valuable for men who want to avoid the same pitfalls. Drawing from both his mistakes and successes, he offers practical advice on how men can maintain attraction, respect, and self-confidence in their marriages. This book is a candid, insightful resource for anyone looking to strengthen or rebuild their relationship, rooted in the wisdom gained from real-life experience.