THE WHOLENESS JOURNEY: Finding Yourself in Christ Before Finding Love A Christian Guide to Self-Worth, Healing, and Preparing for a Godly Relationship What if the key to the relationship you've been praying for... is becoming whole before pursuing it? In a world obsessed with dating apps, relationship goals, and fairy tale love stories, too many are still left broken, misunderstood, or stuck in cycles of unhealthy relationships. Why? Because you can't build a healthy relationship if you don't first have a healthy identity. The Wholeness Journey is not just a relationship book. It's a soul-deep invitation to rediscover your God-given identity, embrace unconditional self-regard, and walk into your next season-whether single, dating, in courtship or engaged-with confidence, clarity, and Christ at the center. In these pages, you will: Learn how to truly love yourself and others without losing your worthBreak free from cycles of low self-respect, emotional dependency, and fearHeal from the past-childhood wounds, heartbreaks, rejection-and step into freedomDiscover what marriage counselling, couple's therapy, and Scripture say about healthy preparationLearn how to guard your heart, set godly boundaries, and communicate with compassion and maturityShift your self-talk and self-esteem to align with God's truthUnderstand what a healthy relationship looks like and how to build one that lastsThrough biblical principles, practical wisdom, reflection prompts, light humor, and real-life stories, this guide leads both men and women through a transformational process of healing and growth-before they ever say "I do."Whether you're a single sister rediscovering your purpose or a brother trying to break generational patterns, this book will challenge and equip you to become whole in Christ before becoming one with anyone else. Woven in the book: - Independence, self-esteem, love yourself, unconditional self-regard, forgiveness, trust, empathy, emotional boundaries, relationship, marriage counselling, self-talk, healthy food (yes, we touch on that too!), behavior change through communication, types of kindness, compassionate leadership, and more. Don't wait for love to make you whole.Let this journey of faith, healing, and rediscovery prepare you for the relationship God has for you-and most importantly, the identity He already placed within you.Start your journey today-because wholeness was never meant to wait.