The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course. This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes. "Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses. ContentForeword - 7Introduction - 9About the Author - - 9How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14 Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19Why Does a Man Submit? - 20The Silence Challenge - - 24The Femdom Mindset - - 28The Malesub Mindset - - 30The SSC Principle - 31The RACK Principle - 33Short Theory Section - - 35 Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41Create Your Own Role - - 45 Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52The Location - - 52What Should I Wear? - 55 Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57Greeting the Mistress - 58Practical Tips - - 60Practical Examples - - 62A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63Topping from the Bottom - - 66 Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68Practical Exercise - - 68Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72 Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78The Most Important SM Practices - - 81 Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147 Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161 Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156 Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163Saying No - - 167Slave Questionnaire - - 169Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176Covering - - 179 Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181The Ruined Orgasm - 185Forced Orgasms - 186Prostate Milking - - 187 Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191The Follow-up Conversation - - 193Hygiene - - 197 Lesson 13: Personal Development - 198Goals for Femdoms - - 200The Session Log - - 201The Slave Contract - - 202 Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner - 220Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs - 223Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms - - 227 Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM - 232 Glossary/Terms - 237Bonus - 250 Reader comments"A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses." - Dominatrix Lisa "Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner." - Manuela "The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice." - Fluffy "Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many." - Mistress Emma