The cheat on Summer (The cheat but not cheating ) emphasized on how to cheat and never get Caught. The cheat but not cheating is the ultimate guide to becoming a serial cheater with thousands of honest encounters over 14 years of tried and tested strategies by the author himself. The book includes safety rules for success and the skills you need to find your sex partner and keep coming back for more, and the author's secret weapon on how to impress your partner in some passion rocket fuel.According to my definition of infidelity - a breach of trust that occurs when you keep intimate and meaningful secrets from your primary romantic partner - the difference, if any, is not in the specifics of your behavior, but the depth of lies and secrecy. of this behavior has an impact on your partner. For example, your partner may not care that you have lunch with an attractive coworker every once in a while, as long as you're open, honest, and reply to it first. If you go to lunch with this coworker and keep it a secret, your partner may feel hurt, abandoned, and betrayed. This is true even if you have no sexual or romantic interest in your coworker. Cheating, microcheating otherwise, is not behavior but more about lying and keeping secrets and the impact of those lies and secrets on your partner. Of course, it's all subjective, depending on the couple and the relationship boundaries they've agreed to. This means that certain behaviors can be like being completely unfaithful to a couple, cheating on others, and not cheating on others at all. For example, some couples may think that using pornography while on a business trip is considered cheating while another couple may consider it cheating. cloth and another couple might think it's not a problem at all. The same can be said for flirting, texting, webcams, and more. I think it's important to point out here that much of what most people consider microcheating is relatively normal behavior both in and out of a relationship. If you see someone you find attractive and that person smiles at you, you will likely return your best smile, regardless of your relationship status