The Ultimate Guide to Alternative Relationships I'm sure your monogamous friends are lovely people and probably have some great advice...about other topics. But when it comes to non-monogamy, let's face it, it's best to hear it from someone who's been there before. Enter: relationship advisor and polyamorous guru Sam Cat. Sam's personal experience with polyamory, alongside their work educating, speaking with and supporting other non-monogamous folks, allows them to masterfully take on the role of a peer so you can finally have the answers to all your burning questions: What relationship structure is best for me? How do I tell my partner I want to open up? Is it normal to feel jealous? Should I be friends with my partner's partner? Does more sex really equal more problems? Featuring real-life examples, endless empathy and a touch of brutal honesty, this book will give you--and your partner(s)--everything you need to start forming healthy, respectful and emotionally fulfilling relationships that last.